論斷與被論斷 To Judge And To Be Judged
論斷與被論斷 To Judge And To Be Judged
(一)何為論斷
• 論斷的實質:起於心
• 論斷的實質:輕看
(二)為什麼不要論斷人
1.違背愛的黃金原則 用什麼量器量給人,就要什麼量器量給你
2.僭越神的主權
3.人的有限
• 如何避免落入“論斷”的陷阱
(三)被人論斷時
• 如何面對別人的論斷?
• 不要以惡報惡
- 快快地聽,慢慢地說
• 輕看別人的論斷
- 我被你們論斷,或被別人論斷,我都以 為極小的事,連我自己也不論斷自己(林前 4:3)
• 在教會裡,還能不能“判斷”了?
- 背後的心如何?
- 效果如何?
- 問自己三個問題
• 我這樣做對弟兄/姊妹有什麼益處?
• 我這樣做對教會有什麼益處?
• 我這樣做神會得著榮耀嗎?
路加福音6:37-42 (CUV)
37你們不要論斷人,就不被論斷;你們不要定人的罪,就不被定罪;你們要饒恕人,就必蒙饒恕(饒恕:原文作釋放);
38你們要給人,就必有給你們的,並且用十足的升斗,連搖帶按,上尖下流的倒在你們懷裡;因為你們用甚麼量器量給人,也必用甚麼量器量給你們。
39耶穌又用比喻對他們說:瞎子豈能領瞎子,兩個人不是都要掉在坑裡麼?
40學生不能高過先生;凡學成了的不過和先生一樣。
41為甚麼看見你弟兄眼中有刺,卻不想自己眼中有梁木呢?
42你不見自己眼中有梁木,怎能對你弟兄說:容我去掉你眼中的刺呢?你這假冒為善的人!先去掉自己眼中的梁木,然後才能看得清楚,去掉你弟兄眼中的刺。
Luke 6:37-42 (ESV)
Judging Others
37 “Judge not, and you will not be judged; condemn not, and you will not be condemned; forgive, and you will be forgiven; 38 give, and it will be given to you. Good measure, pressed down, shaken together, running over, will be put into your lap. For with the measure you use it will be measured back to you.”
39 He also told them a parable: “Can a blind man lead a blind man? Will they not both fall into a pit? 40 A disciple is not above his teacher, but everyone when he is fully trained will be like his teacher. 41 Why do you see the speck that is in your brother's eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye? 42 How can you say to your brother, ‘Brother, let me take out the speck that is in your eye,’ when you yourself do not see the log that is in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take out the speck that is in your brother's eye.